How much is too many QUESTIONS???

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Our teachers always told us that there were no stupid questions. Do you really agree with this? I got into a conversation with a good friend recently about asking questions and being asked questions in an office environment. For instance, you are extremely busy, concentrating on your work, trying to figure out certain things, when a new or not-so-new member of the office comes to ask you questions about a technique you are using. As a kind person, you should answer all questions in details, right? What if this becomes a habit?

Let me put it this way- the latest member of the office is all up in your research business. This person wants to know everything you are doing even though it has nothing to do with their own job. Do you keep answering the questions in this case or do you politely decline?

On the other hand, as the newest member, have you found yourself wondering if people are willing to answer your questions. Have you found your colleagues a bit unfriendly and unwilling to share their knowledge? Which of the divides have you been on and how did you handle the situation.

Please share your experience.

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